A Memoir of Friendship and True Crime

Padma Viswanathan was staying on a houseboat on Vancouver Island when she struck up a friendship with a warm-hearted, working-class queer man named Phillip. Their lives were so different it seemed unlikely to Padma that their relationship would last after she returned to her usual life. But, that week, Phillip told her a story from his childhood that kept them connected for more than twenty years.

Everyone knows that the teller tells the tale, but master tellers also know how the tale tells them, exacting a toll.  Padma Viswanathan is a born teller, a master reporter, a master senser, and indeed this may be her masterpiece. The tale she tells is a doozie, but so has been its toll, and her reader will experience the rare, sometimes heartrending privilege of partaking in both.

— Lawrence Weschler, Mr. Wilson’s Cabinet of Love

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Recent News and Thoughts from Padma

Where We Stand named a most-anticipated book of 2024 by Lit Hub!

Thrilled to get this endorsement and hoping it presages success in the English-speaking world for this important book: “Part theory, part manifesto, part history of Black feminist thought, Djamila Ribeiro’s hugely popular take on racial and gender identity in Brazil—translated ……
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Embracing the Shadow

An interview with Malcolm Fraser of the Montreal Review of Books about Like Every Form of Love that turned out to be a wonderful personal reading of the book. “Viswanathan may not have all the answers,” he concludes, “but she ……
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On the families we don’t choose

A recent piece in The Globe and Mail asking why “chosen family” should be any less complicated than unchosen family.


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Padma Viswanathan is the author of two novels, a memoir, a book length translation, and numerous short works of fiction and nonfiction. This is her official web site.

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